Foreword | p. xi |
Preface to the Thirtieth Anniversary Edition | p. xv |
Acknowledgments | p. xix |
Introduction | p. 1 |
Separation from the Feminine | p. 15 |
Rejection of the Feminine | p. 17 |
The Journey Begins: Separation from the Mother | p. 19 |
The Terrible Mother and the Negative Feminine | p. 21 |
Abandoning the Mother | p. 23 |
Separating from the Good Mother | p. 25 |
Rejection of the Female Body | p. 26 |
Rejected by Mother | p. 29 |
Identification with the Masculine | p. 31 |
Daughters of the Father | p. 31 |
Father as Ally | p. 34 |
Daddy's Girl: Absorption of the Feminine | p. 36 |
The Father Quest: Gathering Allies | p. 39 |
Lack of a Positive Masculine Ally | p. 40 |
Addiction to Perfection | p. 44 |
Learning the Rules of the Game with Dad | p. 45 |
Putting the Patriarchy on Notice | p. 47 |
The Road of Trials | p. 49 |
Confronting Ogres and Dragons | p. 49 |
The Myth of Dependency | p. 51 |
The Two-Headed Dragon | p. 54 |
The Myth of Female Inferiority | p. 57 |
Slaying the Ogre Tyrant | p. 58 |
The Myth of Romantic Love | p. 60 |
Psyche and Eros | p. 61 |
The Illusory Boon of Success | p. 64 |
The Superwoman Mystique | p. 64 |
Reaction to the Feminine Mystique | p. 66 |
The Great Pretender | p. 68 |
The Myth of Never Being Enough | p. 71 |
Strong Women Can Say No | p. 74 |
A Sense of Betrayal | p. 76 |
Spiritual Aridity | p. 78 |
Betrayal by the Father: Iphigenia | p. 79 |
Betrayal by God | p. 82 |
Spiritual Daughters of the Patriarchy | p. 84 |
What Happens When Women Say No? | p. 86 |
Saying No: The King Must Die | p. 88 |
The Initiation and Descent to the Goddess | p. 91 |
Woman's Initiation | p. 92 |
Looking for the Lost Pieces of Myself | p. 96 |
Mother/Daughter Mysteries | p. 98 |
The Grain Goddess | p. 103 |
The Descent of Inanna | p. 106 |
Meeting the Dark Mother | p. 110 |
Mindful Suffering and Return | p. 112 |
Urgent Yearning to Reconnect with the Feminine | p. 115 |
The Worm Baby | p. 115 |
Body/Spirit Split | p. 116 |
Female Sexuality | p. 118 |
Family Messages about the Female Body | p. 121 |
This Is My Body | p. 124 |
A Cap on My Heart | p. 125 |
Grieving the Separation from the Feminine | p. 127 |
Grandmother Spider | p. 128 |
The Feminine as Preserver | p. 130 |
The Feminine as Creator: Oshun and Changing Woman | p. 131 |
Refining the Vessel | p. 134 |
Healing the Mother/Daughter Split | p. 136 |
Daughters Unmothered | p. 138 |
Mother as Fate | p. 140 |
The Search for the Personal Mother | p. 142 |
Divine Ordinariness | p. 145 |
Healing in Nature and Community | p. 146 |
Grandmother as Guide | p. 147 |
Woman as Mythmaker | p. 149 |
The Origin of Images of the Goddess | p. 151 |
The Dark Dream Woman | p. 152 |
Woman's Words | p. 154 |
Taking Back the Dark: Reclaiming the Madwoman | p. 155 |
Reclaiming the Power of the Feminine | p. 159 |
Finding the Inner Man with Heart | p. 162 |
Healing the Wounded Masculine | p. 162 |
The Unrelated Masculine | p. 164 |
Releasing Machisma | p. 166 |
The Sacred Marriage | p. 167 |
A Woman of Wisdom and a Man with Heart | p. 168 |
Healing Powers of the Feminine: Hildegard | p. 172 |
Dreaming of the Sacred Union | p. 173 |
Beyond Duality | p. 177 |
Healing the Split between Feminine and Masculine | p. 179 |
A Circular Perspective | p. 182 |
Dual Nature of the Divine | p. 184 |
Celtic Christianity | p. 186 |
The Circle as a Model for Living | p. 188 |
Conclusion | p. 193 |
Notes | p. 196 |
Bibliography | p. 206 |
Credits | p. 211 |
Index | p. 213 |
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