Introduction | p. xiii |
Acknowledgments | p. xxiii |
Remove the Obstacles to Growth | p. 1 |
Avoid Diagnosis (Except for Insurance Companies) | p. 4 |
Therapist and Patient as "Fellow Travelers" | p. 6 |
Engage the Patient | p. 11 |
Be Supportive | p. 13 |
Empathy: Looking Out the Patient's Window | p. 17 |
Teach Empathy | p. 23 |
Let the Patient Matter to You | p. 26 |
Acknowledge Your Errors | p. 30 |
Create a New Therapy for Each Patient | p. 33 |
The Therapeutic Act, Not the Therapeutic Word | p. 37 |
Engage in Personal Therapy | p. 40 |
The Therapist Has Many Patients; The Patient, One Therapist | p. 44 |
The Here-and-Now--Use It, Use It, Use It | p. 46 |
Why Use the Here-and-Now? | p. 47 |
Using the Here-and-Now--Grow Rabbit Ears | p. 49 |
Search for Here-and-Now Equivalents | p. 52 |
Working Through Issues in the Here-and-Now | p. 58 |
The Here-and-Now Energizes Therapy | p. 62 |
Use Your Own Feelings as Data | p. 65 |
Frame Here-and-Now Comments Carefully | p. 68 |
All Is Grist for the Here-and-Now Mill | p. 70 |
Check into the Here-and-Now Each Hour | p. 72 |
What Lies Have You Told Me? | p. 74 |
Blank Screen? Forget It! Be Real | p. 75 |
Three Kinds of Therapist Self-Disclosure | p. 83 |
The Mechanism of Therapy--Be Transparent | p. 84 |
Revealing Here-and-Now Feelings--Use Discretion | p. 87 |
Revealing the Therapist's Personal Life--Use Caution | p. 90 |
Revealing Your Personal Life--Caveats | p. 94 |
Therapist Transparency and Universality | p. 97 |
Patients Will Resist Your Disclosure | p. 99 |
Avoid the Crooked Cure | p. 102 |
On Taking Patients Further Than You Have Gone | p. 104 |
On Being Helped by Your Patient | p. 106 |
Encourage Patient Self-Disclosure | p. 109 |
Feedback in Psychotherapy | p. 112 |
Provide Feedback Effectively and Gently | p. 115 |
Increase Receptiveness to Feedback by Using "Parts" | p. 119 |
Feedback: Strike When the Iron Is Cold | p. 121 |
Talk About Death | p. 124 |
Death and Life Enhancement | p. 126 |
How to Talk About Death | p. 129 |
Talk About Life Meaning | p. 133 |
Freedom | p. 137 |
Helping Patients Assume Responsibility | p. 139 |
Never (Almost Never) Make Decisions for the Patient | p. 142 |
Decisions: A Via Regia into Existential Bedrock | p. 146 |
Focus on Resistance to Decision | p. 148 |
Facilitating Awareness by Advice Giving | p. 150 |
Facilitating Decisions--Other Devices | p. 155 |
Conduct Therapy as a Continuous Session | p. 158 |
Take Notes of Each Session | p. 160 |
Encourage Self-Monitoring | p. 162 |
When Your Patient Weeps | p. 164 |
Give Yourself Time Between Patients | p. 166 |
Express Your Dilemmas Openly | p. 168 |
Do Home Visits | p. 171 |
Don't Take Explanation Too Seriously | p. 174 |
Therapy-Accelerating Devices | p. 179 |
Therapy as a Dress Rehearsal for Life | p. 182 |
Use the Initial Complaint as Leverage | p. 184 |
Don't Be Afraid of Touching Your Patient | p. 187 |
Never Be Sexual with Patients | p. 191 |
Look for Anniversary and Life-Stage Issues | p. 195 |
Never Ignore "Therapy Anxiety" | p. 197 |
Doctor, Take Away My Anxiety | p. 200 |
On Being Love's Executioner | p. 201 |
Taking a History | p. 206 |
A History of the Patient's Daily Schedule | p. 208 |
How Is the Patient's Life Peopled? | p. 210 |
Interview the Significant Other | p. 211 |
Explore Previous Therapy | p. 213 |
Sharing the Shade of the Shadow | p. 215 |
Freud Was Not Always Wrong | p. 217 |
CBT Is Not What It's Cracked Up to Be ... Or, Don't Be Afraid of the EVT Boogeyman | p. 222 |
Dreams--Use Them, Use Them, Use Them | p. 225 |
Full Interpretation of a Dream? Forget It! | p. 227 |
Use Dreams Pragmatically: Pillage and Loot | p. 228 |
Master Some Dream Navigational Skills | p. 235 |
Learn About the Patient's Life from Dreams | p. 238 |
Pay Attention to the First Dream | p. 243 |
Attend Carefully to Dreams About the Therapist | p. 246 |
Beware the Occupational Hazards | p. 251 |
Cherish the Occupational Privileges | p. 256 |
Notes | p. 261 |
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